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  • Marvelous May- May 28

    This has been the most pleasant spell of cool weather in Missouri that I can remember. The news is too disturbing to tolerate, but here, in this little patch, the world is full of marvels. We are fortunate to have distractions from the outside troubles at every turn, which is not to say we do not care. We care, we do what we can, but we appreciate being grounded in the natural realm.

    Eddy has been consorting with a coyote! The regular visitor seems to mean no harm. Having lived with a coyote for about a year back in the 1970s, I am partial to them, and this one does remind me of my Joni Coyote, who returned to the wild as she grew up. She played with my Jack Russell terrier and other dogs constantly while a youngster.

    The horses have been enjoying the weather, coming in for breakfast later than usual. Bart must be led into the barn, because he will run for the lawn (greener grass on the other side of the fence) at any chance he gets. Oisin and Stone are more reliable (usually) and can wander in on their own.

    I paid a visit to Jane for a chat and a cup of tea, which is always better at Jane’s house. Jane has many squirrels, since her dogs are elderly. Here, Eddy keeps the squirrels away in the woods. He would have loved to chase some of Jane’s rodents, but was not allowed. One of Jane’s squirrel visitors has Olympic long jump capability. I got a picture of it leaping to the birdseed feeder from the porch. Jane thinks that only one individual of the many squirrels visiting her house is capable of that leap. It was impressive!

    Jane’s cat, Bobby, is a diabetic, and he is a credit to her care. He is healthy and happy and very personable. My benign neglect program of care suits elderly (16 years old), very deaf and very beloved Skittle. If I needed to give her insulin, life would become intolerable. As it is, even getting a picture of her is an accomplishment.

    Lynda and Brett have adopted a tiny little kitten who crossed their path while they were in Wisconsin recently. Keifr was a 1 pound, sickly runt and is a very lucky kitten indeed. They drove him seven and a half hours to Missouri and straight to a veterinarian on a Sunday afternoon. He has traveled from the brink of death to Lynda’s shoulder.

    Roscoe remains the Maltese King of Cats around here, and he rests easily, knowing he will not be dethroned in this house.

    Big excitement watching the bluebirds by the barn! Their eggs have hatched and the 5 nestlings are growing apace. I left them in peace until yesterday, and snapped a quick picture (8 days old). It is astonishing how quickly they grow, and I watched Mr. and Mrs. Bluebird today, hard at work feeding their babies. The internet tells me they could fledge at 16 to 22 days, most likely 18 to 19 days.

    Other birds of interest are the Canada geese on nearby Barker’s lake. They have successfully raised five goslings, which Jane saw just after they left the nest. I have only yesterday managed a picture of the goose family, from a long distance, and they seem very happy. Cowbirds here follow the horses in lieu of bison. The horses accept them happily.

    The plants are enjoying this clement weather, too.

    And so it goes around here, as May meanders to June.

    Stay well, stay safe, stay grateful. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Memorial Day 2025

    Uncommonly cool and pleasant weather has allowed peonies to persist , and they are still blooming today. When we moved north to Pike County, Memorial Day was a day for decorating graves, not just those of service members lost in battle. Peonies were the favored flower, though already fake flowers were taking over. But it was in Pike County that I first heard the flower called a pee-OH-nee, and I think of that pronunciation whenever I look at PEE-ah-nees, as I pronounce them.

    My maternal grandmother, Gertrude Shea Quetsch, was by all accounts, quite a dynamic woman. I don’t remember her, but I have had her painting of peonies on my wall since I turned 25, when my mother gave it to me.

    But today is really a day to remember lives that were given up for a cause. My family has been incredibly lucky to have escaped that sacrifice. It cannot be said enough that luck should not be underestimated in our journeys through this life.

    In the twentieth century- World War I – three Barry boys served with distinction and decorations, surviving that hellish “war to end all wars”. My grandfather, Jim, wrote about his years in the trenches. His brother, Great Uncle Gerard, lost a leg, but survived. Alas, his luck ran out in Cork, where he was inadvertently shot and killed by “friendly fire” from a sentry in 1921. Great Uncle John, who introduced me to the famous Elsie Morgan, a rare woman huntsman in Ireland in 1971, was seriously wounded during the War, but recovered to ride to hounds and lived to the age of 90.

    In World War II, three more Barry boys served the Crown with distinction and all came home alive. My father, Brian, was at D-Day aboard HMS Orion, Uncle Pete was in Naval Intelligence at Scapa Flow, and Uncle Mike was a paratrooper, first man to land at Arnhem, a “bridge too far”, where he was wounded and captured by the Germans. He returned emaciated but alive at the end of the war, and went on to follow in his father’s footsteps as a beloved country doctor.

    On my American, maternal, side, the Steel industry kept grandfather, Leonard Quetsch out of military service. Later, his five sons all served, but did not see action during the Korean War. My mother’s brother, Uncle Jack, went on to become Assistant Secretary of Defense of the United States.

    Harry, of course, served in the U.S. Navy in Viet Nam and survived. He continues to work with service members who were wounded in subsequent wars, and he never discounts his luck. He has been the luckiest thing that ever happened to me!

    Bless all who grieve losses today, and be grateful every day for the people who have kept us safe, at the cost of their own lives.

    Be well, be safe, be lucky, and be grateful. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Dropout – May 24

    These long, cooler than usual May days are great for getting things done, but terrible for blogging. I am so exhausted at the end of each day that I just postpone writing, and the weight of the wait piles on. It is tempting to simply drop out, walk away, as I have been inclined to do about many things… But once again, I will try to pick up after almost a fortnight’s absence!

    We love living here, and the sight of happy horses grazing always makes the expense and the work worthwhile. Recently, we have actually ridden those happy horses, which is even more fun than looking at them.

    This week, high school classmates (some of whom were classmates since we were 6!) had a get together to celebrate our big birthdays as we turn 70. It doesn’t feel so long ago we were all excited about turning 16 and driving…

    I have assiduously avoided reunions until recently, disgraced by being a dropout, amongst many reasons. Though I was conflicted about going, it was strangely delightful to see these women whose lives have followed different paths from that long ago high school, where we danced the Maypole. The girls we were are still evident to us. I took some pictures…

    Last Friday (eight days ago), St. Louis was hit by a tornado. The devastation is shocking. Out here, the sky grew ominous, there was some wind, and a few raindrops. I was oblivious of storms nearby until I received some pictures from Louise, who lives in the Central West End of St. Louis. Earlier this Spring, her son’s house was damaged by a tornado in Arkansas. Now a tornado at her own home. One of the glories of St. Louis has always been the magnificent trees. Very many of them are down and we will not live to see their replacements achieve century size. North St. Louis, which is mired in poverty, received monstrous damage and five deaths. As if that part of the city didn’t have enough problems… And beautiful Forest Park has lost unimaginable numbers of trees. We, who were unaffected, and all who survived, are grateful, but very sad.

    In better news, this has been a banner year for strawberries here.

    Though I have not had the energy to blog, I have taken plenty of pictures.

    And that is all I have time for this evening. I will aim for more tomorrow…

    Be safe, be well, be grateful. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Old Ladies Back In The Saddle – May 12

    Almost the middle of May, and yesterday Jane finally got back in the saddle, after an 8 month hiatus. It was great fun, picking up where we left off, and it felt familiar and comfortable to be riding together again. We rode two horses each,and on our second ride Marilyn happened by on Trigger. Harry was kind enough to record the trio of old ladies astride.

    We were somewhat inspired by visiting the Prime Time Horse Show at nearby Happenstance Farm early Sunday morning to see Susan on her new Santa Fee, and JoJo on Breezy showing in the MOHJO Classic. It was a glorious day. Unfortunately, I forgot my camera, so just imagine what fun it was, cool and sunny, our friends jumping double clear rounds and earning ribbons. Harry and Weedy even attended, though in their own car, as their tolerance for spectating is limited. It is a joy to watch Susan’s new relationship with her beautiful, elegant chestnut mare developing. And fun to see JoJo’s powerful , young chestnut mare, Breezy, growing into herself and playing the game easily.

    So, on Sunday afternoon, Jane and I rode our chestnut horses and had so much fun, we had to ride again. I asked Harry to hold off until I had ridden his horse , just once, in case Stone was wild. Harry is even older than we old ladies!

    After riding and bathing, the horses were turned out for the night. Stone had a brief roll, but Oisin really enjoyed getting dirty after his bath. Jane and I watched Oisin roll completely over three times. This was partly his athleticism, and partly his beach ball body shape. When we were kids, they said a horse was worth $100 for every roll over. With inflation and tariffs, we figure it’s about $10,000 today, making Oisin worth at least $30,000. Bart did not participate in the pasture rolling competition. He stayed in the shed because there was a fly in the vicinity.

    It’s fun seeing the birds pairing up at this time of year. As it got quite warm, the bluebirds took a bath together, providing fun pictures.

    The cats are enjoying the sunny days. Roscoe, who often helps me outside in the garden, was absent today. I didn’t pay much attention, until it was time for his evening snuggle, and I still hadn’t seen him. Of course, I immediately worried about coyotes, which was silly. I reviewed the day, went upstairs, where I had traded the winter comforter for the summer one, and heard plaintive cries from the closet. There he was, and instead of blaming me for shutting him in the closet, he was grateful for the rescue. What a magnanimous cat!

    I saw an apparently dead beetle floating in the automatic waterer in the shed. I dumped the bowl, and to my relief, the beetle was alive. It was a green tiger beetle, considered the “cheetah of beetles” for its speed. I can vouch for that, as I chased it, trying to get a picture with my phone camera.

    The May flowers continue to delight us. The fringe tree is both beautiful and fragrant, as is the mock orange outside the studio.

    Eddy’s vigilance has discouraged deer from visiting. While I do love to see them, I do not miss their insatiable appetite for many of the plants in the garden.

    Be safe, be well, be kind and be grateful. Laugh and cry. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Crazy May – May 10

    This month seems very busy indeed, and I continue to fall further behind. We are having plenty of fun, and glorious, cool weather, unusual for Missouri, but I just cannot keep up.

    It has been a less than stellar photography phase. I think talents can fluctuate, and this week has been a trough. Friends have been out to visit, which has been great fun. Charlie and Katie came on Wednesday.

    On Thursday, Linda and Ted arrived as Fred was still at work in the barn.

    After we went out to lunch, we took a group picture before Linda and Ted departed. Never enough time to spend with faraway friends…

    Friday brought a hectic morning, with a welcome delivery of hay and an equally welcome visit from the electrician to put right the internet outlet (as well as fixing a couple of temperamental lights). Nathan arrived to mow and trim the hedge, and Jane and Eddy and I made a trip over to the Prime Time Show at Happenstance. We were delighted to meet Susan’s new horse, Santa Fee, who is beautiful and talented. It is always fun to watch new partnerships develop.

    The adage promises May flowers after April showers. The rain carried over into May, but now that it has stopped (at least for a couple of days) the flowers are coming on at a good clip.

    Coyotes are serenading loudly outside as I write. I see them more often than ever before. The other day, I saw a coyote pick up something in the south pasture and carry it off. Not sure what it was. The coyotes love to pick up the plastic jump cups from the ring and carry them out into the grass, so I have a policy of keeping the cups attached to the standards. The long lens on the camera shows me things I cannot see with my eyes from a distance, but this coyote find is a mystery. The coyote seems to be blowing its winter coat, but is fat and happy.

    Insects and fungi are not as popular as birds and mammals, but they are also beautiful and interesting. I worry a lot about pollinators. We are definitely seeing fewer bees this year. I checked the fruit trees this week to see if pollination happened. The Asian Pear tree blossomed, but failed to set fruit this year.

    There have been bumblebees enjoying the borage, which always reminds me of the line in an Edna St. Vincent Millay poem “beautiful borage, forage for bees…”

    Amphibians are a sign of a healthy ecosystem, so I highly value the one frog that survived winter and awaits the stream renovation. Unfortunately, Eddy loves to chase the poor frog, but it gets to enjoy life when Eddy is elsewhere.

    Today, we went to Brett and Lynda’s beautiful Augusta home for a delicious lunch, many laughs, and gardening inspiration. Lynda is as passionate about plants as I am about horses.

    Roscoe has been helping me with gardening chores. Weedy has been working on making some Vitamin D in the sunshine.

    And so, we are caught up. It was dark before I finished chores, another beautiful, cool night and a bright moon. Happy horses are on night turnout with coyotes singing like cowboys.

    David Attenborough turned 99 on May 8. One of my great treasures is a letter I received from him in February, 1985, when he would have been only 58. Time certainly gets away from us… I will close with some of David Attenborough’s words to me.

    “I do hope all goes well with you and that you manage to find what you are seeking…”

    Be safe, be well, be kind and stay strong. Write letters! Be grateful for David Attenborough and his kind in this world. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Moving On… Letting Go – April 27

    As the playwright Ionesco said, “Only the ephemeral is of lasting value”, and so I have relinquished all of my past Hostgator blog posts to memory alone.

    I have switched hosting sites due to a corruption in my previous blog site that caused the cost of renewal to rise to almost $1,000 per year. The advisors told me that I must start a new blog, so I have moved away. This is a very difficult transition for me, but I think it is healthy, and I am hoping it will teach me to part with some of the mountains of boxes accumulated in the basement.

    This week has galloped past, with a lot of coyote music in the evenings, and a view of a brace in broad daylight.

    Eddy watched them until they departed and then enjoyed following their scent in the pasture.

    I managed an image of a pileated wood pecker, the first photographic pileated picture of the year, though I have had many views without a camera.

    I went with Harry this week to VMD Sculpting, Vlad’s place in the city. It was wonderful to see the clay sculptures transformed to bronze. As always, time with Vlad was funny and inspirational. As a bonus, Daniel and his dogs arrived to meet up with his friend, Julie. Being around young people (and Daniel’s dogs) is great fun, too.

    The world here is bursting with life. Since I began blogging and posting pictures, I have become more aware of the beauty around us. Some of it, though is quite striking, like the glorious azalea that my mother brought here, as a start from her own azalea.

    In the woods and around the place, there are birds and plants galore.

    On Friday, we were invited to watch the National Finals of the Interscholastic Equestrian Association – a competition for high school students. Our friends, Beth and Frank, own nearby Morrison Equestrian Center, and their daughter, Kendahl, was in the top section. The 18 best high school equestrians in the nation had qualified to compete over an equitation course on borrowed horses. Each person gets two jumps before going on course astride a horse they do not know well. Kendahl is a freshman, and she had a beautiful round, placing 6th in tough competition. We were very pleased to be there to watch and cheer.

    It’s been a rainy, cool weekend. Laura came by with her little dog, Dreidl, who terrorized Eddy, sadly. But it was a fun visit for the rest of us.

    A bluebird of happiness in the top of the apple tree…

    Happiness can arrive in any weather. Be safe, be well. Be kind and stay strong. Slava Ukraini! God Save America. Peace…

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