Crooked Path – January 30

The road to recovery is a crooked path, not a straight line. Life is a confusion of good days and bad. Today was not a great day. For one thing, it was very cold.

Harry had Physical Therapy first thing today, with Devan, and that went well. Harry was able to stand without touching the walker. While they worked, I tried to get some projects done, but always got sidetracked and never quite finished anything.

Harry had time for a short rest, and then Patrick arrived for Occupational Therapy. I forgot to get a picture of Patrick, but, like Devan, he is coaching Harry toward a return to the studio.

Lunch was delayed by the arrival of an enormous vehicle from Lowe’s that had delivered something to a neighbor, then drove in here looking for a way to turn around. Bill, the driver, was very apologetic and got very stuck. I should not judge, but he was very stupid. I managed to free him by blading lots of snow with the tractor, and eventually he did escape. That used up more than an hour.

The most frightening thing that happened today illustrates my stupidity. I had assembled the raised, comfortable seat for the toilet that Harry uses. He is able to get out of the chair and go to the bathroom without my help. Well, I had failed to realize that one leg of the seat had not locked properly into place. For three weeks, we never noticed it, and today, the toilet seat collapsed with Harry on it! He called to me, and I did not hear him, so he managed to extricate himself from the predicament. Then he called me, and I did hear him, and was mortified at both my bad assemblage and my poor hearing. The disaster had a happy ending, at least, in that Harry was not hurt. I am immensely grateful to the therapists for the strengthening that they have given Harry in just three weeks, so that he could survive my ineptitude!

Jane came over and we moved more hay from the shed to the barn. The horses are happy and healthy, staying warm by devouring lots of lovely hay. I have not had much time for pictures, but I snapped one of hard working Jane and her greatest admirer.

Roscoe and Weedy have no interest in going outside in frigid weather.

Here are a few bird pictures…

Be safe, be well, be warm (physically and temperamentally). Life is crazy, hang on, and hope for the best! Slava Ukraini!! Peace…

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5 responses to “Crooked Path – January 30”

  1. Yetismith Avatar

    You are certainly not stupid, Anne, or inept! Stressed and tired undoubtedly. It is hard to see someone you love suffer but Harry seems to be doing amazingly well after such an experience. Hopefully the weather will moderate and life will return to whatever normal is these days.

    I love your bird photos.

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  2. exactlykingdd6acee5c3 Avatar
    exactlykingdd6acee5c3

    Fatigue makes us do stupid things. I hope you find time for self care. Some tea, a movie, a read, a soak, a hug. Hugs galore, Brits or no. Love, L

    Linda D Parkhurst Parkhurst Brothers Publishers PO Box 356 Marion, MI 49665 http://www.parkhurstbrothers.com http://www.borrowedhorsemanship.com http://www.artistonduty.com

    Think good thoughts Speak good words Do good deeds

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  3. Harlan Avatar
    Harlan

    Its good to have an update and thank you for that. Im glad everyone is ok and that you have Jane to help you out.

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  4. Gayle Lampe Avatar

    My gosh, what would you do without Jane?! You should have made the truck driver figure out how to get unstuck himself, but then he would have torn up your road, so I guess you needed to go to his rescue! Roscoe and Weedy are the wise ones. You have entirely too much on your plate right now. Don’t be hard on yourself!!! I’m so glad the therapy is helping Harry.

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  5. patti Avatar
    patti

    And with all you dealt with, dear Anne, you still managed to give us beautiful photos of birds. You give us smiles, no matter what. I hope there are smiles now at the Weber homestead, especially for the great progress Harry is making! Happy Healing, Harry!

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