Category: Horses

  • Hot Summer Day – July 28

    Another blistering, humid day, but every day carries us toward Autumn and cooler, crisper days. For now, we are hanging on to a forecast of cooler weather Thursday.

    Bart must get fit, hot or not, if there is even a thought of horse showing in September. Ironically, the prize list for the St. Louis National Charity Show came out today. Bart and I traipsed around for an hour in the heat. He was uninspired, but felt great after a rest day yesterday. We saw a turtle on the trail, which reversed us, rather than risk stepping on it. Always a good day when we see a perfect turtle!

    Speaking of reptiles, I saw a skink on the porch. Eddy chases lizards, so I haven’t seen many this year.

    Eddy is wild, even in the hottest of weather. Weedy is much more sensible.

    Just like his dog, Harry is wise and handsome.

    A tufted titmouse cooled off on this hot afternoon. A blue jay was caught in flight before he landed and cooled off by panting.

    Flowers and butterflies are thriving in the heat, though we are already needing some rain again.

    A thunderhead teased us with possible rain, but moved on.

    Be safe, be well, be kind. Drink plenty of water. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Twelve Years Ago – July 27

    Kris reminded me by text that we connected twelve years ago today.

    Jane and I took our relatively new horses to Oklahoma City for a horse show in July 2013. Jane had purchased Derry from Canada, and she arrived that Spring. Oisin had come here in October 2012 as a green 5 year old.

    We were sort of schooling each other, figuring we weren’t jumping all that high. I took Oisin into a low jumper class, and we were eliminated at the second jump. I was pretty sure I had ruined him.

    I had seen Kris at the horse shows and had watched him school a student. I liked his style of teaching, so I approached him and asked if he would “catch school” me , since I had stopped out on my new pinto. Also, would he please help Jane, too?

    Kris was a good sport as well as a good teacher, and he agreed to take on two middle aged (then) women he didn’t know. I was instructed to stay straight to the jumps. Jane was already doing things right.

    Oisin has never stopped since that day! Kris has become much more than a trainer to me. I hope to ride with him again, but regardless, we will always be friends. Twelve years has gone by in a blink. I only have one picture from that auspicious adventure, but great memories.

    Be safe, be well, don’t be afraid to ask for help! Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Another Week, Another Goodbye – July 26

    The summer days melt into one another. We have had an uncommonly humid July, even by Missouri standards. When we moved here in the 1960s, the British consulate was paid tropical wages for the summer. We grew up without air conditioning, but we were surrounded by trees, which offered welcome shade, and as children, we were fed salt tablets, since we were not acclimated to such heat.

    Now, I work in the heat and sweat profusely, salting my food freely to compensate. I really have developed hyperhydrosis (excessive sweating), in old age, which is far preferable to anhydrosis (failure to sweat), a terrifying condition that can occur in horses, and in humans.

    So much for today’s health lesson, onward, which is to say, backward to the beginning of this busy week.

    Erosion control took up considerable time and energy after a much appreciated heavy rain. It is hard work for an old lady, shoveling limestone screenings. Harlan works in all weather, and always takes time for a visit when I am around.

    The cats keep advising me to take it easy in this weather, so I did take a break to get some cat pictures.

    You know who is working harder than I am this week? Mr. and Mrs. Bluebird. They have brought 4 more bluebirds of happiness into the world and are feeding them plenty of bugs. It is hard work. Just look at poor, bedraggled Mrs. Bluebird!

    A fellow art teacher, Mary Beth, from Harry’s time at MICDS in 2004/2005 came for a visit. She brought a lovely pot of basil she had grown from seed and we had a delightful time with her. Some people grow bitter with misfortune. Mary Beth has had some difficult troubles (brain cancer being a big one) but she is optimistic and kind. We and the animals enjoyed the day.

    I had lunch this week with our friend Jane McClaren, who lives in St. Louis. Her partner, Barry, took some incredible pictures of hawks in their back yard. I think they are broad winged hawks. Jane was concerned for them in the heat, but when she took water out, they flew away. They appear to be a pair with a juvenile.

    Wednesday evening, I saw Eddy with a Labrador. I assumed it was Roy, but it was not. He was an older and very hot dog, with two collars on, but no tags. We put him in the pen with water to keep him safe while we tried to find his owner. Without success around here, we resorted to calling the Warren County sheriff . Deputy Justin Wade came by and took a picture. At 9:00 PM, there was a knock on the front door, and the owners of Ruger, who, it turns out is 14 years old, arrived to pick him up. They had also thought to call the sheriff! Ruger had wandered off at 1 PM, so he had been gone for over four hours when he showed up here. A happy reunion and a good night’s sleep…

    The rain and the heat have produced a bumper crop of chanterelles. Nathan came out and I helped him harvest two bags. Alas, I got a terrible case of oak mites! I thought they arrived in August, so this was a nasty surprise.

    Less horrifying is the beauty around us, and seeing much of it from Bart, as we get legged up, just in case…

    Yesterday, we drove to Columbia to attend a memorial for Deb Booker, a legendary horsewoman in Missouri. Her daughter, Sarah, is a fixture at horse shows all over the nation as a judge and announcer. We have known Sarah since she was a child. Now she is a grandmother of Deb’s great grandson, Tate, whose first birthday was recently celebrated by Mrs. Booker before she left us.

    Known as Mrs. Booker to many of us, as Deb or just Booker to friends, she taught at Stephens College and at William Woods. My first encounter with her was in 1975, when she provided me a horse to ride for my U.S. Pony Club A Test. I failed, but I was grateful and in awe of Mrs. Booker from then on. I didn’t know her well, but I aspired to work as hard as she did and to be as tough and kind as she was.

    There is a saying that “if you want to have a big funeral, die young”. Mrs. Booker proved that wrong. She lived and worked for 88 years and a big crowd turned up to say goodbye. Linda and Ted drove all the way from Michigan. There was a sharing of memories, in which the microphone was passed to many and various people whose lives were shaped in one way or another by Mrs. Booker. She was a horsewoman, a mother to three, a collector of rocks (!) and insulators (!!). She was interested in history, politically active and she was an irreplaceable, one of a kind character. She truly “lived until she died”.

    Mrs. Booker had asked that in lieu of flowers people should register to vote and vote for their choice. Many memories shared were concerned with horses, but one woman stood up and said that Mrs. Booker taught her to be a Democrat. There were laughs and tears, and it was a special day and a good send off indeed.

    Be safe, be well, cherish friends. Slava Ukraini! Peace.

  • Some Days… July 5

    Some days just do not go according to plan. Maybe that should be most days, around here lately, anyway.

    This morning, I optimistically dressed to ride, brought the horses in, and then noticed the pasture fence had broken. Yikes! Luckily, the horses had not escaped. Good thing the stream renovation equipment had helped catch the broken fence.

    Plan B went into effect. I would not have chosen a day this hot for fence repair, had I another option, but at least the only plan for today had been riding and relaxing, which could be postponed. First thing I had to do was drive the Kawasaki Mule across the creek to dump some weeds. On the way I came across a magnificent black snake. I think this was my second encounter with this beautiful individual. I stopped for pictures.

    Once I was taking pictures, I also saw some photo worthy fungus. It’s too dry for them now, but they patiently await rain.

    I set to work, dismantling the fence boards, replacing two posts, and reconstructing the fence. Sounds easy enough, but it was brutally hot and took all day. Harry was a huge help, though I was loath to make him work in the heat. We both survived, marriage intact, and despite a lack of fence boards, we were able to make do with old boards and bits and pieces. Our order of 50 fence boards, made in November, is still on the books at the sawmill, but they are running behind, like everyone is, so we have used up all our good, long boards. The good news is that both posts extracted on the first pull, which is incredible good luck!

    Bart was delighted at the turn of events, of course.

    The cats rest through the hot days.

    Hot, buggy weather is normal for Missouri in July. The horses are out at night, getting plenty of exercise with their tails.

    The birds continue to eat voraciously. Today, at lunchtime, Squirrel Nutkin paid a visit. I do love the squirrels, but we rarely see them with Eddy about the place. I am grateful that Eddy’s presence has reduced deer consumption of lilies and hostas. We still see plenty of deer around, but they have learned Eddy’s boundary line.

    Eddy is unperturbed by the continuing fireworks, but poor Weedy is very stressed and keeping to his bed.

    And that was our holiday Saturday.

    Be safe, be well. Stay cool and stay strong. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Summer Has Arrived – July 4

    Picking up the blog after another long absence… When I last posted, it was still Spring, the days were lengthening toward the equinox, and now, suddenly, it’s summer and the days are shortening.

    Life is hectic, with much more to do than time and energy allow. We have had a very full social schedule, too, and, as Satchel Paige said “the social ramble ain’t restful”. Today, Independence Day, is our first day without obligations of one sort or another. It is welcome calm, but we are discouraged by the political disgrace that has brought shame upon the United States.

    I began regular blogging to inform people of Harry’s recovery from a broken femur in February 2020. When the Covid pandemic arrived, the blog brought pleasure to people confined in houses, as I posted pictures of our little patch of country with its variety of creatures. It was a simpler time. We have fallen into “interesting times”, which is indeed a curse. Nonetheless, the beauty of the world around us does remain.

    As I write this, there is a constant barrage of explosions as our neighbors celebrate by ruining the peace and quiet that we cherish.

    So, let’s go back a couple of weeks. There was rain, and lots of lush, green grass. Fred came to replace the horses’ shoes, and we had a wonderful day, as Fred brings laughter and gossip along with his anvil and forge. Harry had visitors in the studio, and they came over to the barn, fascinated to see a real farrier at work.

    The long, cool, Spring spoiled us, and when the heat and humidity arrived, we all wilted along with the plants, but there is still plenty of beauty around. Particularly butterflies and birds…

    The dogs and cats bring us joy, of course, regardless of the news. They truly live in the moment. Eddy spills over with joy every day, while Weedy is more reserved, but brimming with sweetness for all.

    The big project for this year is renovation of the stream. The work was supposed to start in February, but did not actually begin until last week! I was greatly relieved, because the catbirds had fledged, so there was less disturbance of the creatures. Once the stream is back in action, there will be many happy animals, but it is a big job and will continue into next week. Here are some pictures… clearing for the project was done by the author.

    We went to Pike County for Holly’s birthday party this week. Pike County is one of my favorite places, maybe because I was young and at the height of my abilities when we lived there. But it is still really country, and very beautiful, populated with some of our favorite people.

    Yesterday, we had a visit, delivering some beautiful pine bedding, from Laura, Dorothy and Thrus.

    And so it goes…

    Be safe, be well, be kind. Laugh, stay strong, and learn the truth. Treasure friends and the natural world in all its wonders. Slava Ukraini! Peace. God save America…

  • Another Week – June 10

    Here’s a depressing statistic – the average lifetime contains 4,000 weeks. At the rate weeks dissolve lately, it gives one pause. Life is fleeting!

    Around here, the past week brought rain in torrents.

    Bridlespur Horse Show, once an important national competition, is now just a local event, held at Happenstance Farm, near here. This horse show has always been renowned for rain, even after attempts at moving the date. But Sunday brought sunshine, so we made a trip over to visit and watch friends jump courses. I took a few pictures.

    And here are some more pictures from the wet week.

    We had a visit from a longtime friend, Lou Ann, and her granddaughter, Rory, who is a talented artist (and a first rate golfer!). Many years ago, I rode one of Lou Ann’s horses at the Arabian Nationals. She and husband Mel stood a Trakehner stallion named Pennant, and Phaon was one of his sons, who was half Arabian.

    The birds are thriving, and we are immersed in birdsong whenever rain abates. I carefully monitored the bluebird nest, and am pleased to report that all five babies successfully fledged, though there are no photographs. The barn cats were displeased with night lockup as fledging date approached, but are now released to roam again. I have cleaned out the birdhouse and await a new brood. Meanwhile, here are some characters I did get pictures of this week…

    Every day is filled with more than I can accomplish, but I feel very fortunate for so many friends, for plenty to do, and for YouTube to help with repairs. Despite the devolution of our democracy, with lies and misinformation everywhere, Nature and repairs are real. YouTube provided accurate information, and with Harry’s help the repair of the shed waterer was accomplished.

    I had lunch yesterday with Florence, who has been a friend for more than 55 years. I watched her ride when I was learning, and I idolized her as a rider and as a writer. I treasure her as a friend.

    Stay dry, stay well, be grateful and kind. Resist fascism and autocracy. The United States is supposed to be a Democracy.

    Slava Ukraini! Peace and courage…

  • Another Goodbye – June 5

    The privilege of getting older comes with the cost of losing many along the way. Word reached us (thanks to Jane, who is still on Facebook), that Bill Robertson died peacefully last weekend. Bill’s son, Brody, married Jen, who wrote a beautiful memorial to Bill, complete with many pictures. She has given me permission to share it.

    “The world has lost an absolute legendary horseman, William “Bill” Robertson, this past weekend. It was an honor to call him my father-in-law and later, our Papa Bill. He was polite, he was gentle, and if you met Bill, you would think he was just some nice old cowboy that had a horse in his yard.

    You wouldn’t know that he was one of the first Americans to win a Nations Cup at Aachen or that he was part of the “Dream Team” that represented the United States Equestrian Team at Dublin and many international shows. He trained at Gladstone, under Bertrand DeNemethy, alongside his teammates, William Steinkraus, George Morris, Mary and Frank Chapot, Kathy Kusner, and others. You wouldn’t know that he had wins at Madison Square Garden or the thousands of Grand Prix and Puissance wins on hundreds of different mounts, many of which were pulled from kill pens and racetracks. He didn’t really care where the horse came from, how it was bred, or what it had done before. He had an eye and a feeling and could pick one from the most humble beginning. Every horse had the same chance with him.

    Bill taught me the essence of true horsemanship. I never once saw him have contempt, anger, or frustration towards a horse.

    He was empathetic and it was always about the horse’s point of view. He made the horse WANT to do the thing that was being asked. He was so slow and so patient. The horse would do one thing right and he would say, “That’s enough for today. There’s plenty to do tomorrow.”

    He could describe in great detail what something should feel like (even over the phone) and the steps to take to get there. He could do more in 3 minutes than most could in 3 months. He could get on the hottest of horses and make them soft, balanced, and ready for a child to ride when he was done with them in a few weeks.

    I had a young, unstarted horse in the round pen one time. It reared, struck at him, and came after him with its teeth. He pulled the straw hat off his head and held it up, having the horse trot away. He was totally unfazed and explained,

    “He’s just doing what he thinks he needs to do right now.”

    I will remember the way Bill sat on a horse, the way he carried his hands and the softness and compassion he had In the reins.

    I have so many learned lessons and sayings, and so many memories that I will cherish. He will be missed by all of us, but especially his wife, Deitra, and his dog, Zorro. I am comforted imagining the ripples of true horsemanship and the impact he had on so many people that are now professionals in their own right. There’s nothing he would have loved more knowing that. Happy trails, Cowboy.”

    There were many more pictures in Jen’s post on Facebook. Bill was legendary to me, having heard of him since I was 14. Harry and I met Brody before we met Bill, In Des Moines, Iowa, when Brody was a kid horse showing for the summer with Dennis Mitchell.

    Brody, like his parents, (Bill and Patty) is a horseman, though he has become a world renowned course designer. Through Bill he has grown up with legends in the sport of showjumping. His great luck in life, though, was marrying Jen and having sons Saer and Flynn.

    For a while, Jen and Brody were here in Missouri, and it was a golden era. They gave wonderful clinics and competitions, and brought famous horsemen in for memorable sessions, legendary in these parts.

    Best of all, Bill stayed a while here in Missouri before returning to Texas. Jane and I went for a lesson with him, which was incredible. Before we began to ride, Bill mentioned that he had watched us mount our horses, and that the horses’ failure to stand still for mounting was a big mistake. I changed my ways from then on, and every time I mount a quietly standing horse, I think of Bill Robertson and how fortunate I was to learn from him. He was as kind to me as he was to horses.

    Here are few pictures from the last time I saw Bill, at a George Morris clinic at Altamonte in 2018, before Brody and Jen moved south to Ocala, Florida. He was a great horseman and human being.

    Thanks for the lessons and for the memories.

    Stay well, stay safe, keep in touch. Treasure the memories. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Marvelous May- May 28

    This has been the most pleasant spell of cool weather in Missouri that I can remember. The news is too disturbing to tolerate, but here, in this little patch, the world is full of marvels. We are fortunate to have distractions from the outside troubles at every turn, which is not to say we do not care. We care, we do what we can, but we appreciate being grounded in the natural realm.

    Eddy has been consorting with a coyote! The regular visitor seems to mean no harm. Having lived with a coyote for about a year back in the 1970s, I am partial to them, and this one does remind me of my Joni Coyote, who returned to the wild as she grew up. She played with my Jack Russell terrier and other dogs constantly while a youngster.

    The horses have been enjoying the weather, coming in for breakfast later than usual. Bart must be led into the barn, because he will run for the lawn (greener grass on the other side of the fence) at any chance he gets. Oisin and Stone are more reliable (usually) and can wander in on their own.

    I paid a visit to Jane for a chat and a cup of tea, which is always better at Jane’s house. Jane has many squirrels, since her dogs are elderly. Here, Eddy keeps the squirrels away in the woods. He would have loved to chase some of Jane’s rodents, but was not allowed. One of Jane’s squirrel visitors has Olympic long jump capability. I got a picture of it leaping to the birdseed feeder from the porch. Jane thinks that only one individual of the many squirrels visiting her house is capable of that leap. It was impressive!

    Jane’s cat, Bobby, is a diabetic, and he is a credit to her care. He is healthy and happy and very personable. My benign neglect program of care suits elderly (16 years old), very deaf and very beloved Skittle. If I needed to give her insulin, life would become intolerable. As it is, even getting a picture of her is an accomplishment.

    Lynda and Brett have adopted a tiny little kitten who crossed their path while they were in Wisconsin recently. Keifr was a 1 pound, sickly runt and is a very lucky kitten indeed. They drove him seven and a half hours to Missouri and straight to a veterinarian on a Sunday afternoon. He has traveled from the brink of death to Lynda’s shoulder.

    Roscoe remains the Maltese King of Cats around here, and he rests easily, knowing he will not be dethroned in this house.

    Big excitement watching the bluebirds by the barn! Their eggs have hatched and the 5 nestlings are growing apace. I left them in peace until yesterday, and snapped a quick picture (8 days old). It is astonishing how quickly they grow, and I watched Mr. and Mrs. Bluebird today, hard at work feeding their babies. The internet tells me they could fledge at 16 to 22 days, most likely 18 to 19 days.

    Other birds of interest are the Canada geese on nearby Barker’s lake. They have successfully raised five goslings, which Jane saw just after they left the nest. I have only yesterday managed a picture of the goose family, from a long distance, and they seem very happy. Cowbirds here follow the horses in lieu of bison. The horses accept them happily.

    The plants are enjoying this clement weather, too.

    And so it goes around here, as May meanders to June.

    Stay well, stay safe, stay grateful. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Rainy Sunday – May 25

    A rainy day can be a blessing for catching up on “indoor” activities. We were sad to forego an early morning ride, but I intended instead to work at my desk.

    A plan to set jumps for Crumlin and Brett mid morning was not derailed, as there is an indoor arena at Rocking Horse Ranch. Jane, Eddy and I had a rather stressful drive through the rain with a low tire, which we stopped to air up. The trip was well worth the effort, though, as Brett and Crumlin were brilliant. Alas, I failed to take ANY pictures, but here is one of my favorite gray Warmblood from last month.

    We returned home with high expectations for Crumlin’s adventures ahead, and when we were almost home, I stopped to take a picture of some geese. Curses! I had left my camera and bag of riding equipment in St. Clair. So much for a productive day… Still, Harry and the dogs and I enjoyed a road trip there and back in the other car, with reliable tire pressure, listening to a new Carl Hiaasen book, and laughing a lot.

    I continue to see coyotes on an almost daily basis. Here are a few pictures. The horses seem unperturbed by them. Tonight, the coyote spent a long time watching me, and then went into the woods and barked like a dog. I had never heard that from a coyote before!

    Meanwhile, the cats are all accounted for, though I haven’t taken a picture of Skittle recently. The others love the camera.

    Birds continue to delight us, and some are nesting, which is very exciting. I have been watching the bluebird nest near the barn, and to my delight, a week ago, the eggs hatched. I have left them in peace for a week, but plan on a peek into the house tomorrow.

    The horses are happy and enjoying this exceptionally cool month of May.

    I have been fortunate to see two beautiful black snakes in two days – one quite small youngster and a magnificent three foot adult.

    We are surrounded by beautiful forms of life, most of which are fascinating and uplifting (except for ticks!!).

    Here is a hornet’s nest just starting to be established on the fence. I will be avoiding that, but appreciate any pollinators!

    Be safe, be well, be grateful. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

  • Dropout – May 24

    These long, cooler than usual May days are great for getting things done, but terrible for blogging. I am so exhausted at the end of each day that I just postpone writing, and the weight of the wait piles on. It is tempting to simply drop out, walk away, as I have been inclined to do about many things… But once again, I will try to pick up after almost a fortnight’s absence!

    We love living here, and the sight of happy horses grazing always makes the expense and the work worthwhile. Recently, we have actually ridden those happy horses, which is even more fun than looking at them.

    This week, high school classmates (some of whom were classmates since we were 6!) had a get together to celebrate our big birthdays as we turn 70. It doesn’t feel so long ago we were all excited about turning 16 and driving…

    I have assiduously avoided reunions until recently, disgraced by being a dropout, amongst many reasons. Though I was conflicted about going, it was strangely delightful to see these women whose lives have followed different paths from that long ago high school, where we danced the Maypole. The girls we were are still evident to us. I took some pictures…

    Last Friday (eight days ago), St. Louis was hit by a tornado. The devastation is shocking. Out here, the sky grew ominous, there was some wind, and a few raindrops. I was oblivious of storms nearby until I received some pictures from Louise, who lives in the Central West End of St. Louis. Earlier this Spring, her son’s house was damaged by a tornado in Arkansas. Now a tornado at her own home. One of the glories of St. Louis has always been the magnificent trees. Very many of them are down and we will not live to see their replacements achieve century size. North St. Louis, which is mired in poverty, received monstrous damage and five deaths. As if that part of the city didn’t have enough problems… And beautiful Forest Park has lost unimaginable numbers of trees. We, who were unaffected, and all who survived, are grateful, but very sad.

    In better news, this has been a banner year for strawberries here.

    Though I have not had the energy to blog, I have taken plenty of pictures.

    And that is all I have time for this evening. I will aim for more tomorrow…

    Be safe, be well, be grateful. Slava Ukraini! Peace…