Long Absence – November 1

A lot has happened around here, some of it a bit difficult. Catching up may take a while, but for now I will relate the story of Harry’s health.

The day after the Charity horse show in September, Harry went to his doctor because he was short of breath. Next thing you know, I received a phone call (while in Augusta, Missouri) that the doctor had sent him to the emergency room!. I tried to reach Jane, and she had forgotten her phone, for the first time ever. So, there was a mad drive home to tend to animals, and thence to the ER, where Harry was diagnosed with exacerbated emphysema. Two days in hospital, a hefty course of steroids, and on with life. I was not allowed to blog about it.

Fast forward to October 10, the day of Harry’s retrospective at the art gallery in Webster Groves, McCaughen & Burr. By this time, we had seen two new doctors, and oxygen had been delivered the house, but Harry was not using it.

The art show was an insane success (Harry had a short course of prednisone to help him through giving a talk and greeting many, many friends). There were a couple of hundred people – it was chaos, but fun chaos. Harry’s childhood friend, Gay, flew in from San Francisco and surprised him at the gallery, then stayed a couple of nights.

Louise threw a dinner party for Harry the next night. It was a wonderful, busy time.

Skip forward again, through another full week, during which Harry was stoic, but not very well. Still not using the oxygen…

And then, on Tuesday we went with a friend to the gallery and lunch. Afterwards, Harry began to use oxygen.

On Wednesday, Aunt Pat came from Chicago to see the artwork in the gallery and Harry was not well enough to join us. Now, I was really starting to worry. Also, I had seen the swelling in his legs, which had been going on for much longer than I realized.

On Thursday, we went to see the pulmonologist, Dr. Shah. He stopped at the doorway on his way past, just to say hello and ask about the art show, which he had missed due to a wedding. When he saw Harry’s legs, there was no discussion. Harry was sent immediately to the hospital. This time, I was not surprised at all.

We were put into a really nice, private room, quite a change from the miserable September accommodations. Harry was given diuretics. A lot went awry after that. I won’t belabor the story with details, but on Friday, Harry’s kidneys were insulted, let’s say (because of the drugs). There was talk of moving him to 6, which I understood to be the cardiac floor, and we really wanted to stay in the nice room. They did allow that, and Harry rallied, with all meds paused. Luckily, I did not find out until Saturday that 6 is also the ICU, which is where they were contemplating putting him!

With a “micro dose” of diuretics, kidneys rebounded, and Harry was well enough on Sunday that he was discharged, to the dismay of the pulmonologist (one of the 5 doctors involved with the case).

We revisited Dr. Shah on Monday, and spoke to the cardiologist. The news was not very good. Life is quite altered by the tether to oxygen, but we are adapting.

Then, on Wednesday, Weedy had a small skin tumor removed. Poor Harry missed him terribly for the 5 hours he was away. It was either Wednesday, or wait until December 11, so we added that to this hectic week.

Yesterday, we saw Dr. Stein, Harry’s primary care doctor, and he was less discouraging in his evaluation of Harry than the hospital doctors had been. We have more hope now for improvement, but it is going to be a while. Failure to address health issues is a common problem with horse people, who tend to “tough it out”. Harry stayed tough for too long, and recovery will take even longer. Obviously, emphysema does not offer much recovery, but Harry will be doing pulmonary physical therapy starting next week. Better times will come.

Stay well, or rest and recover. Be grateful. Slava Ukraini! Peace…

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13 responses to “Long Absence – November 1”

  1. Jessica Avatar
    Jessica

    Oh what challenging times you have had ! Sending restful healing thoughts to you both, so glad to hear and see Harry home on the couch in good company 🐾🐾

    Lots of love from all of us in 🇸🇪

    Jessica, Elin, Leah, Lennart and Marianne ❤️‍🩹

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  2. Yetismith Avatar

    Oh my! I’m sorry to hear all this. It sounds terrifying and awful for Harry. I can’t believe you still managed to do the art shows. I must say though that Harry looks quite well in the photograph! Please give him my best wishes. Weedy too!

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  3. Melinda Mayer Bierman Avatar
    Melinda Mayer Bierman

    Best wishes to Harry for a full recovery and to you for being his biggest cheerleader. ❤️

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  4. Alison Sherman Avatar
    Alison Sherman

    Hopefully things will get better soon🙏

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  5. Betsy Jacoby Avatar
    Betsy Jacoby

    poor Harry! And you too! What a tough time you’ve had. I hope things get better soon

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  6. Melissa Mihalevich Avatar
    Melissa Mihalevich

    I’m so sorry to hear this news about Harry , just thankful he’s up and moving again , please know you are in our prayers ♥️

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  7. zealousbriefly941310203b Avatar
    zealousbriefly941310203b

    Get better and STAY better!

    Love,

    Jan and Kip

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  8. Catherine Naulin Avatar
    Catherine Naulin

    Oh dear! I missed your blog, and now, I understand why you were not sharing news of your busy life.

    I am so sorry to hear about Harry’s trials and tribulations. Please give him all my best hugs, and here’s hoping things go better soon.

    Bravo for the art show, what an amazing artist, what a trouper as well!

    Much love to you both,

    Catherine

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  9. Cathy Schiltz Avatar
    Cathy Schiltz

    I am sending you both love and healing prayers , I am sure you are both exhausted . ❤️🙏

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  10. Justine MacDonald Avatar
    Justine MacDonald

    quite the challenging times you’ve had since we last saw you! Thank goodness Harry is home under the watchful eyes of you and the dogs! Sending prayers.

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  11. Karen Stoeckley Avatar
    Karen Stoeckley

    wishing only the very best to Harry and his most capable and loving nurse! Let’s talk soon when you have a moment to do so. Love you both. Xxoo

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  12. Patti Avatar
    Patti

    The insane success of Harry’s gallery show was even more impressive considering his physical state. But, as with all great performers, the show must go on; and Harry hosted with his typical warmth and charm, plus fascinating commentary. And, now the path has smoothed, and the photo of a relaxed Harry with his pups said, “All is well”. Ah, yes, may it be!

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  13. Gayle Lampe Avatar

    No wonder you didn’t have time to blog with both Harry AND Weedy under the weather. I wish both of them a very speedy recovery. Perhaps now Harry will have some time to relax with the gallery opening behind him.. I’m sure that was a lot of fun for him, and he had to be so very proud of all of his works, but the event, as well as everything leading up to it, must have been exhausting for him. Now he and Weedy will, hopefully, have time to heal.

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